Growing fast







Yesterday in church they showed us the end of the movie Schindler's list – it spoke to me about the impact of adoption. “To save one human soul is to save the world”. It amazes me the Divine in adoption. Anyone touched by adoption cannot stay the same. It is like redemption. You go from point A to point B and it does not make sense unless something happen in the middle. David and Julia are sleeping in the room next to mine and 3 years ago they were sleeping in an orphanage across the ocean … how do you explain that? Well, it took a process, steps, money, sacrifice, lot of people helping, but really the work is called redemption.
They grow up too fast. My little ones are learning to write and read and I am loving it.

Things of Everyday Life

"Mami, sit down here": David and Julia ask me to sit down and watch them sing a concert with guitars and drums o just watch them play baseball. "Oh my goodness!!!" That's what David says when he is surprised - just like Granma Berenice would say it.

Julia loves her dolls, she plays to be a caring mother that goes to the “office” and comes back with food(num – nums) for the family and the baby.

David looked at me from across the dinning room table and smiled and said, “mami is beautiful” well, he actually said “Mami is Linda” which goes deeper into my heart since he chose my native tongue to give me a complement.
I have been giving him lots of descriptive names, such as David is helpful, obedient, careful, truthful, etc but he chose to call me beautiful!

Check out our Cruise pictures

Since I have nothing else to do, I created a new blog just for publishing our last Celebrity Cruise pictures.

Check it out:
http://knowlescelebritycruise.blogspot.com/

Besos.

Celebrity Cruise for the Knowles gang


We just had the best family vacation ever! We came back yesterday from a 7 day cruise onboard the Celebrity Millennium.
David got to play a real drums ...




It was a great cruise to the Eastern Caribbean Islands.




Want some cake?





I ate lots of cake!










Some of the B-day Pictures. Julia was very happy with the celebration.
















The kids had a blast! Julia asked for cucumbers and caprese salad every night and then she ate her main meal. We went to the beach in Saint Thomas and Labadee. Brian and I went to Saint Thomas for our honeymoon and now we were back 16 years later with our kids. That's the reason for the romantic picture!

Julia ate Cucumbers every night!

What a blessing to have the love of my two children.




Since Julia’s b-day was closed enough, we decided to celebrate it on the last day of the cruise. We ate at the main dining room every night; the last night as we were ready to leave, a couple from the table next to us came over and made a wonderful comment about our children, they said that their table had been impressed by the way our children behave in the table. We were so proud! It has been a long road here but it has been all worth it!

I got the best Easter gift possible!

I was invited to be the host at a women’s congress for Campus Crusade for Christ next to Miss Universe Paraguay 1999. “Today’s Women”, is the name of the movement. Among the attendees, 80% were women; leaders from all over Latin America and Judy Douglas, wife to the President of Campus Crusade for Christ. Judy was an inspiration to me.

The Lord surprised me when I was asked to speak at the conference on Resurrection Sunday. You see, I met my children on Easter 2006 and here I was yesterday sharing the wonderful love of God.I spoke about Adoption! He adopted us as His children and just as it happened with David and Julia, when God adopted us, He gave as His name and also an Inheritance.

What does adoption have to do with Resurrection? There is the obvious answer and then, there is a more personal answer: He provided a resurrection on an area where we were dead. David and Julia are a resurrection miracle for Brian and me.

“Lord, send me a surprise.
One that catches me off guard
and makes me wonder.
Like Easter.

Send me a resurrection
when everything looks dead and buried.
Send me light
when the night seems too long.” Dr. Herbert Brokering


I challenged the women to do a self-analysis and ask the Resurrected Lord to resurrect what might be or seem dead in their own lives.I thank God for the opportunity to advocate for adoption to this group of very special women.

After I spoke, I heard so many encouraging words. Many women were crying and even Brian, my husband, the only man allowed at the conference, was also crying. One woman told me that she will go back with the Hope that the Lord will resurrect her marriage. Some other adoptive mothers that were there thank me for bringing up the adoption topic among Latin women, where generally adoption comes with a stigma. I explained how adoption changes everything and how it is a wonderful display of God’s love.

One woman came to me afterwards and told me that my testimony helped her to decide to take the path of adoption and to me that is just too wonderful for words!

Oh, I was forgetting!!! I went to Lima to promote my first ever book. It is called Un Minuto Con Dios (One Minute With God) It is a devotional – 50 reflections to share with you spouse. It is based on the first 50 radio programs – I know, I forgot to write about our radio Program!

This is all part of our ministry to the Spanish speaking people, here in the USA and in Latin America. I speak about our children on this book also. Let me know if you would like a copy – I still owe Glo a copy of my CD, I still have her home address, and time just go by too quick …

Can I say merry Christmas and Happy New Year?











“I listened to you and found my own voice”. Hilary Clinton on winning the New Hampshire Primary yesterday.

I am not a supporter of Hillary; even though I admire her willingness to become our country’s leader. But the reason I write her words on my blog, is that I think her phrase would work wonders on a marriage, on a family, on any relationship, right?

I wish to say, “Brian, I listened to you and in the process I found my own voice”

I hope to listen to my children also; listen to what they say with their few words as well as what they say with their behavior, actions and attitudes. I have found some of what Christ wants in me through my children, that's for sure ...

Yesterday at the doctor's office with David I almost cried! David was 2% when we first came from Russia, yesterday, I was told he is 75%!!!!! I could not believe it! Praise the Lord!!!

Here are some pictures you might enjoy. Auntie B - I will be adding more christmas pictures to my facebook ... David is wearing the Atletico Paranaence Uniform!

Our First Rainbow Together

Julia and David got to see their first rainbow yesterday! Right outside our window.

I got my camera and was able to get a picture of Julia’s face as Papi was holding her proud. One of the joys of parenthood is to be there for all the “first” experiences; by being an adoptive parent, the amount of “first” experiences we get to share with our children are less.

We can either lament saying “what if we had the opportunity to adopt our children at an earlier age” or we can just Take in and treasure the opportunities we get to share. I have chosen the second option.
We also went to the mall o see the Christmas train. Here in this picture david is wearing the outfit auntie B got from san Francisco. Auntie B got both, David and Julia traditional Chinese outfits. Julia looked really oriental, exotic and beautiful; David looks like a prince.

Middle Named by Jullia









May be the reason my mother did not give me a middle name was because, it was meant to be a gift from God.

When we met Julia, she was Yulia. We did not want to change her name so we gave her a significant middle name: Amanda (Loved one, amada) so her name is Julia Amanda Knowles.
Julia has learned to say her name, the name of “abue” (my mother), her brother’s, Grandma's, Grandpa, papi’s name and my name.

When I asked her the other day to say my name she said: mami rebe amanda knowles

So that’s it! It was meant to be. Julia has changed my name, I used to be Rebeca Knowles but now, she has Adopted me! and changed my name to Rebeca Amanda (Loved one) Knowles.

There is almost nothing left of the Rebeca Segebre Matera I used to be.

Para mi amado Brian

Brian,

You say I give you wings;
but you are my anchor;
The solid place where I feel safe.

Your faithfulness trespasses all possible boundaries
It’s more than just an attitude
Or even a space.
It is your soul that pulls me to your direction
Where ever I run to do or dream and wish to be.
You are always there.

His House Gala only 2 weeks after surgery

If you are looking for a place to support in South Florida, look no more! We love the people from His House. Here I got this picture with the founder “Mama” Jean.

Jean is one of those rear people that are living a life of significance doing what their heart and the Spirit of God inspired them to do. She is practicing true religion, taking care of the orphans of South Florida and the foster children; 350 of them.

I just had surgery (to have my uterus removed) 2 weeks before the event Last Saturday. I got flat shoes, stay only for 2 hours, but did not want to miss the event! I am glad I was there to express our support.

I met one beautiful 10-year old girl that night, while I was touching up at the bathroom; she is at the Home with two more siblings: I was inspired!
I also met in the bathroom, a woman with 6 children that is adopting a 12 year old girl from His House, and I was also inspired.
Thanks so much Jean for your hard work. Their web site is: www. hhch.org

This post is dedicated to Auntie B!


Since you were not here on the 25th to sing to you the “Happy to ya” song, here are some pictures to entice you to visit us soon.

David got an “airplane-avion” from Cesar and Raquel and he told me where you sit on the airplane. According to him, you are actually flying the airplane!

Como to see us soon Brenda! We enjoy when you are home with us, and the children love it!
Happy B-day to you from all of us!

Things Julia and David Love to eat


David and Julia would stop eating their meal if they see the following items in the table:

Tomatoes,
Avocados,
Cucumber,
Radishes,

They also love onions, and their favorite salad is the caprese salad with tomatoes and cheese.

Here is a proof look at all the asparagus, they ate the whole bunch before papi was done with the meat.

We are so happy that our kids love veggies!

David y Julia singing

I am just a proud mom of future artist:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mImFF8nUwtU

Check it out.

Rebeca Knowles shares stage with Yuri (rebeca who?)

I was invited to a Christian event this Saturday titled “a pause in eternity”

I am thrilled to be part of the program next to the Mexican “Diva” Yuri .. can you believe that?
I will be singing one of my songs and sharing my adoption experience with around 500 Latin women. What a privilege!!!

Please pray for me as this is a great opportunity to change some erroneous views on adoption and encourage the Latin community to understand the power of God’s love in adoption.

David's B-Day Party

We celebrated on Sunday with a group of friends and family; tia Raque, cesar and Gabi were missed as well as grandpa and granma who were celebrating their 40th year aniversary!!;
so here are the pictures: Look at what happens when mami is not looking!

David looks like giving thanks to God for his new gift.

Having fun with friends.


Brian and I were at the National Hispanic Prayer Breakfast


June 15, 2007, 1:00:00 PM
President Bush on Friday said, "I thank you for the chance to come to the National Hispanic Prayer Breakfast. Appreciate the opportunity to be with Hispanic American pastors and priests and community leaders and faith based activists from all over the United States. I thank you for coming, and thanks for having me come. I appreciate your leadership, I appreciate your compassion, and I thank you for your abiding faith in the power of prayer. One of the reasons that America leads the world is that we've always welcomed people who are determined to embrace our democracy and stand for freedom."
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Hillary was also there. She was great. This trip to Washington DC gave me a bigger appreciation for the people that serves us. It is not an easy task.
This was the first time Brian and I were apart from David and Julia and I have to confess I had some moments I just wanted to run to the airport to come home.
But I think it was a good experience for all of us; today, when we were finally together, we were very greatful to be together. It is now one year together as a family and I want to praise the Lord for His Goodness toward all of us.
We celebrated our one year together at an argentinean restaurant - it felt like a dinner on a honeymoon trip - the beuty of relationships based on commitment, of choosing to love and allow another to love you.

Our Adoption Biography on ConexionUSA magazine

Check out the article that ConnexionUSA magazine wrote about our adoption journey.
Click or copy and paste the following address and you’ll see part of the article:
http://www.lanueva883fm.com/cnxusa-temp/mayo2007/biografia.php

June 14th will be our first year with David and Julia and we will celebrate our “Gotcha” day.

My first mother’s day as a mother


My first mother’s day as a mother myself was extremely exiting.

I started the day with a great breakfast in bed. My husband created a brunch experience for the two of us and we ate at our balcony while our children were still in bed. He prepared beautiful eggs with vanilla French toast made out of croissants, decorated with few sautéed spinach leaves and some kiwi pieces. He also brought some blackberries, my favorite fruit, and Mimosas! And of course my regular morning latte. Isn’t he amazing!!!

Then, I took a shower and he got the kids ready. When I left the bathroom David and Julia were waiting for me with flowers in their hands and sang: “Happy to you, mami, happy to you Mami, Happy to you Mami Mami, happy to you mami.”

Bravo!!

Happy B-day baby Julia


Julia and Mami in Church.
Today, I am officially the mother of two two-year old children! Today is Julia’s B-day. I love my Julia; she is a Joy to have. Happy B-day baby!

We had a great party on Saturday and have so many pictures but my computer crashed so I have to wait to publish them.

Auntie B came to visit for the occasion and we had around 15 children attending the party. It was a little overwhelming for both, David and Julia, but they had fun.
Julia really enjoyed the whole experience.

My first b-day with the kids!


Last year on my b-day I was very sad. Brian and I have just returned from Brazil empty handed after having a really bad experience and one that was also in a way an eye opener. This year, just one year later from that day I felt there was no hope, I celebrated my b-day with Brian and our two children.
At lunch time, I received a phone call from a stranger, someone, I never met before, she was asking me about adoption. I found myself remembering the whole experience. That was the best gift I could have received: I was forced to look back and thank God for His goodness as I gave account on how our adoption story unfolded, and at the same time I was used by Him to bring some light of hope to another family in the process of adopting. Thank you Jesus!!